Saturday, August 29, 2009

HaPPily Ever After?!?

I find it very sad to see some friends divorcing, breaking up after years...even for the most loving couples. Some are just so unbelievable...

Just some thoughts running in mind...

Is there 'Happily Ever After' at all?

Love at 1st Sight...
Love U till Death Do US part...
Love 4Ever...

All Fairy Tales?!?

Falling in LOVE is always easy as 1,2,3...
Falling OUT of LOVE is also VERY easy...if you let it be...

I guess being in a marriage is not only...

Everyday saying 'I Love U'...
Every night making LOVE 2 u...
Every month give pocket $$$ 2 u.........

It's always easy to start a relationship and eventually tie a knot...

BUT it takes MORE than that to keep the relationship going andboth parties just have to work hard to make it happen. If you are not sure, please don't simply tie the knot. It's not a game to play. :p

Sometimes, if one party cannot stand the temptations to stray...things just go wrong everywhere. And once things go wrong, it wouldbe difficult to restore to the original state. Like the saying, once the glass is broken, no matter how you mend it, there's always a crack.

Nothing's perfect in this world. We can't have everything that's for sure.

I guess it's not easy to find someone who...

Loves u for who you are...
No matter how u looks...
No matter how u change in future...
No matter how your attitude is...
No matter what happens in future...

If you do find that person, feel lucky and be grateful to cherish them.

I really admire those old couples with white hair...those who lived to the quote, live together till hair become white.

Well, I just wish all the 'HAPPILY MARRIED' couples out there to have blissful marriage and hopefully to have a relationship 'white hair till old'. And to all that are getting married soon to have a long journey till the end. :)

2 comments:

Melissa said...

well moo, sometimes things happen for a reason and as an outsider to the relationship, we might not understand how it happens, even if we are that actual person in the relationship.

it will be even hard for u to choose sides if u know both of them well. to me, i rather not knowing the details of who's wrong or who's right as sometimes knowing it may also bring problems later.

however, opening your heart and offering a listening ear does help your friends to get over the hurt in time.

i too, have friends like this.. and i remind myself not to criticize the other party as both are friends and deserve the same treatment.

it is sometimes just ain't fair huh? a person so sweet and nice should have a very blissful life. but then look on the bright side, at least they finally seen the true colors than they choose to be blind.

Moo Moo Cow said...

thanx! well, im sure everything happens for a reason but sometimes things just don't happen by itself. it's one's choice that it happens. i guess sometimes it would be even better being blind than seeing things so clearly that it hurts so much. don't mind me... just crapping on my thoughts.. :)